HasidiCult

Don't minimize your impact on the world. Many people care about you, Many people love you, Many people wish you would realize that more. I'm going through a rough patch, but I'm trying to keep smiling and weather the storm. I'm giving myself space to feel my emotions, but also remembering the good times. It's all the little moments that make life worth it. So please, remember your worth. And know that there are good moments ahead of you. Hugs to all of you!!! 🤗❤️

Shabbos, the weekly Jewish holiday, should be a day of rest. But for survivors, it can be just the opposite. I was going to write this as an inspiration piece, full of encouragement of how you can keep going and keep Shabbos even when the going is really rough. (Haha, as if.) But then, I thought, to hell with that. Let's be real.  Keeping Shabbos as a trauma survivor is hell. Plain and simple. Majority of my coping mechanisms are melacha ( which is the term for forbidden work on Shabbos), so I can't cope with the tremendous amount of anxiety I feel. Listening to music? Nope. Putting on lotion? Nada. Calling a friend? Can't do that either. Cutting myself? Just kidding. Don't do that anymore. Plus, all of my major traumas happened on Shabbos, so that doesn't help things much. Even just thinking of the day gets me jittery. As a child, I was molested by a predator in the neighborhood who attended the same Shul (synagogue) as my family. He also happens to be a huge donor